ok guys thanks for the advice, funny thing just happened.
I have 6 mapped folders all on the same server in basement, on the client (Q5) I have it Mapped as follows
Movies1
Movies2
Movies3
Movies5
Photos
Music
Now I clicked Movies and I got the timeout error as described prior, then I went to Movies 2 and it worked, then movies 3it worked, back to movies1 and still no go,then movies4,photos,music all worked. They all worked fine, I then went back to Movies1 again and it started to work. I saved the log and will look at it soon.
Sure is strange as these are all on the same system, but before anyone thinks the drive was this issue 100%that is not it.